Filed under: Friends
May 18th — The walk was from Sarria to Portamarin, Elizabeth and I walked together it was at in a relaxed manner… At times I could go at a faster pace but decided to stay at her pace. It turned out to be a hot day so by the time we got to Portamarin we were tired. We stayed a large municpal albergue. It was large but nice. The showers and baths were separated, man and women, that was a treat. There were no shower doors… this is one of the challenges that I still had/have a hard time with. They had a lovely kitchen but no cooking utensils or pans. I wnet to buy a can for tuna, tomato, bread and wine. I had to find a paper plate and was it as it had been used, cut the bread and tomato with a pocket knife and beg for a plastic cup to drink my wine…. I was grateful and my meal was wonderful…. I still was in shock from the loss of my dear friend Patti… Jay and Charlie the Americans bless their heart always worried about me came looking for me they were staying at a private albergue wich means they had fewer people to a room and more bath/shower facitilties and a view of the lake. As i was walking out of the albergue that they were stayin at there was Eva, it was good to she here, shw was the Hungarian that had had a breakdown and I had not seen here since. She was doing good and was anxious to get to Santiago. I ended up that day going to dinner with Jay and Charile we had pizza not a pilgram menu for a change! that was a treat!
May 19th I walked from PortMarin to Melide, I started with Elizabeth all was good, it was a foggy day with drizzle, About an hour into the walk, I had the urge to walk faster, I could not say a word, I just put my ipod on and off I went. It was Patti’s funeral… I still can not grasp that I will nto see here in this life again, My heart ached and my feet just walked.. I cried and mourned for an Patti. When I arrived to Palais de Rei what was to be my destination, it was anoise city the elections where the next week and there was car with loud speakers for each candiate. I bumped into Jay and told him I had to continue walking I could not stand the noise and just need space. I continued to walk until I had walked 36 miles. I was tired and bumped into Hinez a German pilgram that had been doing the walk from Germany through the last 10 years with a group of poeple. They were going on another 6 km, my body could not go on a that point, there was no albergue there the only thing was a hotel. I went there and got a room. I showered, went down to eat and there was no other pilgrams. A few walke in for a rest but then continued on. I was sad and the owner saw me. The owner saw that I was sad and understood the hardship I was going thru but looked me in the eyes and told me that pilgrams are strong and that we overcome situations and make the most of them that my friend would want me to celebrate her life. I went to my room and cried, looked my self in the mirrow and realized that i had to leave, i was not in my place, i had a spiritual bookelt with me i had picked up a few days agi opened it up randomly and there it was that PIlgrams go thru tough times and we needed eachpther, that this is what communities and friends are for. I realized then that i did not fit in this hotel, i needed to be in an albergue with my fellow pilgrams. I had washed my clothes in the sink as i had every day and hung around the room to dry, Well I packed up and went downstairs and told the lady thank you and walked on it was I walked 42 km that day. arrive to meilde at 7:30pm i was tired but felt right at home and ahd a good nights rest. I had noticed changes in myself and I am grateful for these… God is amazing we are not amde to be isolated rather to be in support groups and be there for eachother, we are one and this is a great feeling….